Sample Condolences and Words of Sympathy for the Bereaved

Sympathy sees and says, "I'm sorry."
Compassion sees and says, "I'll help."

A Pet's Loss

In your heart, you probably realize that in time the sadness you are feeling will fade.

For now, just know that it's all right to hurt...

I hurt with you.

It's all right to cry...

I share your tears.

It is only through crying that you learn what it's really like to laugh...

only after feeling sadness can you really experience joy.

So allow yourself to feel what comes natural...

but know that someday life will be better...

it will be easier to smile.


- Renee Duvall

When it comes to writing a message in a pet sympathy card. Here are a few things to keep in mind.

You should use the pet's name, instead of refering to the pet as "your dog" or "your cat." If you have a specific memory that sticks out in your mind as a special favorite or particularly fond memory, mention it in the card. It will be sure to warm their heart to know that someone else other than just them holds their pet's memory in their hearts. You can also mention one of the animal's positive or lovable traits, for example:

"Toby was a great friend."

Some other pet attributes you might want to use are:
• a joy to be around
• a loyal companion
• a comforting presence
• a faithful friend
• a cheerful presence
• that Mary Girl loved her cookie treats!

Favorite Pet Sympathy Sentiments

Losing a pet is like losing a part of the family.
Please accept our sympathy.

To lose a true friend is never easy.
Know that you're in my thoughts.

Best friends come in all breeds.
May you be comforted by the memories you have of Max.

At first they need us, and then we need them.
Wishing you comfort and peace during this difficult time.

So many steps you took together...
I am so sad for your loss.

Dogs come into our lives, leave pawprints on our hearts, and we are forever changed.
With Sympathy, Jane

It's hard to say goodbye to such a special companion.
My thoughts are with you.

May fond memories of your beloved pet warm your heart always.

No greater companion, no better friend.
Really sorry for your loss.

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